It Takes a Community

The other day, I received an email that really got under my skin. I mean, it really bothered me a lot. It was one of those emails that for whatever reason just irked me.

It felt personal.

I took it personally.

I was ready to respond with snark and sarcasm.

Thankfully, I could process it out with Amy. She listened and reminded me that it was not personal. This was no vendetta to ruin my life (we are given to a bit of emotional over reaction in our family).

I wrote a response. I deleted it.

I wrote a second. I edited it. Amy read it. She approved.

Then I forwarded it all on to some close friends where I was able to write out what I wanted to say. These men embraced my feelings and extended empathy.

I matured a little that day. I was able to because of the people in my life extended grace, truth, and giving a little time.

How do you handle these little moments? Share below in the comments...