Too many people are simply too interested in themselves. They cannot quite get their mind around what it looks like to really care about somebody else. Conversation inherently teaches us to care about others.
There is something beautiful about the back and forth of authentic dialogue. We must intentionally teach emerging generations about conversations, or it will get lost.
When we lose the art of conversation, we just might lose ourselves.
What do you think? Do you practice the art of conversation? Am I overstating it?
As a father of 4, and more importantly a husband... I place a high value on conversation. However, its tough at times. Even for me. Say I am watching a game or preparing a sermon and my kid wants to have a conversation. What am I supposed to do, put the laptop down, look them in the eye and listen? Ask clarifying or leading questions? Restate what they are saying to better understand them... and not give advice? You have got to be kidding me!
ReplyDeleteThere's the rub right? There's timing for this to happen. I think for us, we use meal times as intentional opportunities to have conversation. We model and teach our kids the art of conversation then. There are times when it's not appropriate and that is important to learn too.
ReplyDeleteGreat point!
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